Wednesday, October 3, 2012

The Company of Myself


When I was young, I would lay in the snow at recess on my back looking up at the clouds for the entire duration. I would do nothing but lay there with my thoughts. This was both a form of relaxation and entertainment. I would think of things that confused me, such as the infiniteness of space, why the stars seemed to follow my parent’s car, how the sun was so big but could be blocked out by my thumb, and why the other boys would say the girls gross and ran away, when I thought a few were pretty and nice. I would think of strange conspiracies. Perhaps I am a part of a non-human race of beings that has lived but only one day, and my life and the existence of others I interact with are only a dream of that being.  Is it possible that I spontaneously time travel, yet retain all the memories and emotions that I went through during that time making it seems as though I went through it at regular speed in retrospect? I would think of some of the more basic physics problems. Does a ball tossed in the air ever really stop moving as it falls back down? I reasoned that for a moment in time the ball must have stopped completely. How long was this moment? I decided that the time the ball was motionless must be the smallest number imaginable, because if it weren’t for the fact that it must stop to change directions it would never appear to stop, but to change directions instantaneously. Of course the other children would sometimes notice that I was laying there motionless for long periods of time. They would gather around and ask “Is he dead”. I’d shake my head. “What are you laying there for?” I would reply, “I’m tired”. I had a strange superiority complex at that age; I didn’t believe they would understand.
I’d say my intelligence peaked in the third grade and has been in decline since. Not since then have I dedicated so much time to thinking. I would wait impatiently for the end of the school day, not just because I found school unenjoyable, but also because of the bus ride home where I would just look out the window at the driveways passing by. I learned more on the school bus than I ever did within the walls of the elementary school building.
On the bus, I would rest my head on the window and stare outside. I would imagine a skateboarder riding at the speed of the bus through the ditches. He would jump over every driveway and tag every mailbox; I had always thought it was funny if the bus driver stopped in a place that would suspend the skateboarder in the air for long periods of time. Sometimes, rather than visualizing the skateboarder, I would make a small “tss” during the time that my window would be within the view of a driveway between ditches. Instead of the “tss” I may have also tapped my fingers or foot or even held my breath depending on what felt most natural at the time. These are things that only my body and eyes would do to prevent boredom. My mind and ears would be elsewhere. I would get wrapped up in the conversations of those around me. I would debate with them, and give my own opinion. I would debate with them from the opinion of others around me. I would imagine these other children’s home lives, based on the things they say and how they said it. I would do this all in my head, I never said a word. If I were to hear a group of other boys talking about something that also interested me, my initial reaction was not to join them, it would be to think on the subject. Many of the children on my bus didn’t know my name. I always felt it was strange if they asked, because I had gone so long without telling them or being asked. It seemed that if I they already hadn’t known, that it wasn’t important for them to know. It seemed too little too late. I would often sarcastically give them a fake name, which caused a lot of confusion as most children don’t understand sarcasm. To this day, when I met new people, I find that it’s difficult to introduce myself using my own first name.
I grew out of most of this during middle school. My seventh grade teacher once told my mother “He doesn’t seem to talk much, but that’s the type that do well in high school and college.” Unfortunately, by high school I had become fairly sociable. I joined extracurricular activities. I began dating girls. I started texting, uncontrollably. I stopped thinking. When I would daydream, it was no longer about physics or philosophy; it was mostly about girls and sometimes video games. However I still value the company of myself. Sometimes I find myself walking around campus for no particular reason, or taking the long way to class. I actually enjoy my job vacuuming the cafeteria floors late at night. The sound of the vacuum drowns out all distractions and I’m left again with just my thoughts. I really hope I begin having more of my elementary school thoughts with the amount of opportunities I have, and I can become smart again.


***I wrote this at 7:00am. Without sleeping the night before zzzz****